How we hold this space
The Charter
This is the agreement we keep with each other. It is short on purpose. Read it once, and you’ll know exactly what kind of place this is.
Our principles
Consent comes first — always. Before curiosity, before practice, before anything. Consent is enthusiastic, informed, ongoing, and revocable. It is the ground we stand on.
Respect and privacy are not negotiable. What is shared here stays here. People come as they are; we meet them with dignity.
Education, not solicitation. We teach. We do not arrange encounters, host explicit material, or facilitate hookups. The work is understanding.